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RedCarDriver
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Location: United States Arizona Occupation: it's complicated... more complicated than my relationships Age: 30 V$: 86310 |
#151307 2018-11-14 00:58 |
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Thanks for the support, folks!
# Lagano : You're finally back! I had no idea you'd return in this way though.If you're asking why I decided to transition in the first place, it's kind of a long story. I always felt like something wasn't right with me. I had plenty of clues what that was, especially when I was really little and didn't see anything wrong with it - but then I realized that people did see something wrong with it, so for the longest time, I just kind of made myself forget about it. As a guy, I just really didn't care about anything, because I didn't care about the person I was trying to be. I would try to imagine the future, trying to figure out what would make me happy, and every time I would get stuck on "oh, but I still have to be a guy" and suddenly I didn't want to see that future any more. Then I read some things and met some people, and I realized that I could change that, and suddenly I cared about things like I never really had before. That was when I realized I had to go through with it. If you're asking why I decided to tell all of you - I realized that I hadn't been spending as much time on here or on VStanced's Facebook page as I had wanted, and it was pretty obvious right away that the reason why was because I was still trying to be the same person I thought I was in 2012 or so. I hadn't actually been that person for years, at least not to me. And if people wanted to know how I was doing, how my life had been going since the last time I showed up, I realized I basically couldn't talk about 80% of it. So it was really tiresome to try and make appearances here. I realized that it was actually easier just to tell all of you, if I wanted to stay around. Anyway, just stay the same you as you've always been and hope to see you here some more! :)Thanks! Hopefully I will be around more. That's the idea, at least. |
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It's good that you told this because like you said, people here would still think you're a guy. Why did you decide for such a change? I mean, it's good to change things up sometimes but this is a pretty big one!